It happens to most of us at some point in our lives; you think you’re in love and the romantics of it all blinds you to what your girlfriend or boyfriend is really like!…

Perhaps you already know this and you think things might change over time…But things don’t change and you find yourself with someone you don’t like and infact you can’t stand!

Here are the top 10 irritating personality trates;

Know it all
Criticising
Negative thinker
Demanding
Bully
Self centred and/or selfish
Joker
Embarrassing
Sickeningly sweet and over the top
indecisive

These are of course just a few examples of how uncompatible and irritating habits can drive you bananas! If you ignore these signs things will only get worse, I’m afraid…

If you think you can’t cope then try these ideas to see if you can work thorugh it;

• Recognise you can’t change your partner but You can change your reactions.
• Display only positive behavior.
• Keep eye contact when stating your own opinions and feelings.
• Be straight forward and clear in your communications.
• Make time to be alone together.
• Be honest with yourself, If you make a mistake admit it.